The truth of the matter is, in order for me to truly love and be loved, that wall must come down. This is also not just a woman thing. I recognize that male vulnerability is a unique nuanced experience, that can be beautiful and just as difficult.
On Grace, Transparency, and the Fear of Keeping it Too Real For some time now, the Lord has really been convicting me about the need to be more transparent and honest with my story. I’ve been feeling the tug, and I’ve been shrugging it off, but one of my first steps to finally responding to God’s … More On Grace, Transparency, and the Fear of Keeping it Too Real
On July 31, 2011, I embarked on a journey with a woman that I was in love with…madly in love with. When I woke up that morning, the sun was shining bright and I had time to reflect as all of my groomsmen were recovering from the night before. I decided to take a … More 5…
Every day I imagined myself getting a new job and boastfully slamming a resignation letter on my boss’s desk, but that never happened. Every opportunity that was offered to me fell through for some reason – budget, resources, timing etc. So I ended up staying in this position because I needed the money. – Stacy Graham-Hunt … More Having Trouble At Work?
Give Her that D.I.C.K The sweetest woman in the world could be the meanest woman in the world. If you make her that way. You keep hurting her, she’ll keep being quiet. She might be holding something inside, that’ll really really hurt you one day. On your first DATE you wore your best clothing. You … More Give Her That D.I.C.K
Write or not to write….that is the question??? Are you questioning if you should journal for fear of having record of this tumultuous time in your life? Are you struggling with getting your thoughts together? Or is “writing” something you just don’t do? Whatever may be holding you back, I think journal-ing is a great … More It Only Took A Pen & A Phone
According to dictionary.com, the definition of “medium” is as follows: 1. A middle state or condition; mean. 2.Something intermediate in nature or degree. There are about sixteen definitions for this word, but let’s focus on the first two as it applies to African American males in these United States of America. By now you’re probably … More The Medium
Okay, picture this: A popular couple named Mary and John are in a long-term, committed relationship. To onlookers, it seems that Mary and John are happy. Friends and associates often witness public displays of affection from each partner, banter, and innocent flirting. Occasionally, Mary and John will even declare their love for one another on … More Love Triangles : The Truth Behind Cheating Part I
It was a sunny day during Memorial Day weekend on the coast of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Now anyone that can relate to that time of year will instantly connect to the annual Black Bike Weekend that takes place down there. Thousands of people in one tourist area gather to show off their wheels, … More You Fit The Description
In an age when time and space are conquered by technology, we have become so digitally intimate and involved with the lives of those both near and far. The dissemination of personal information no longer requires the archaic phone-call. Word of mouth is mastered under the140 character format. No more dialing to update the family … More Trending Topics: #Marriage